4. What women want... in bed.

We thought it was time to get into something a little more risqué. One of our favorite subjects - sex. But first we have to put a disclaimer on these entries.

No two people are alike and therefore each one of us has different wants and needs from our partners.

There's a stigma in the world that says sex has to be animalistic or boring. Sometimes humans mate in order to have offspring, but more likely, we're doing it to have fun. To be close. To say something to someone that Hallmark doesn't make a card for. Not yet at least (see prototype below).

Erica: Women get a bad wrap for not being decisive or honest about what we want in life... and in bed. And maybe it's true. Maybe we aren't up front with our partners about what we truly want. But our bodies don't lie. The short answer of what women want in bed is this: intimacy. The kind of intimacy that can only happen when you have sex. Think about it. You're physically closer than ever, you're forced to look each other in the eye (in certain stances), so it's almost impossible not to connect. Don't fight it. Let that happen. Even if you wind up laughing for a little bit. Women want an experience, to be ravaged, to feel like this isn't the same bed she drools in at night. Slam us up against the wall, make a long car ride more "interesting," put on some music, make us feel like we're not ourselves but some celestial sex being. And we want to feel like we're amazing at making you feel amazing. That makes us so confident that we become uninhibited and wild. It works out on both ends. Girls are naturally givers most of the time, so it's nice to switch roles once in a while. I can't tell you how to master all the inner-workings of a woman's body, hopefully there's a male version of Cosmo for that, but I can tell you that if you really want to please her, and you listen to her body, you won't fail. Just to make it clear, moan = good, silence = bad.

Jill: I'm trying fervently to get the image of Mel Gibson shaving his legs out of my mind. Forget everything the movies tell you. Erica's right, women want intimacy. Women want to feel as if the reason you two are having sex is not for the man to get off, but for her guy to do anything to get her off (guys will always get off in the end) and have an amazingly fun time while doing it. Get creative. Ask to try different positions. Be playful. LAUGH, bite, tickle, squeeze, lick...When you show us how much you dig us, it's like winning the lottery every time we're in bed with you. We love to see how much you want us, and like Erica said, we love to see how much we can please you. Guys, don't be afraid to get into it. Moan, loud. It's a huge turn on for girls to hear and see how much you're into what we're doing. If you're anything like Erica and I, real and down-to-earth, then we appreciate real and down-to-earth emotions and actions in bed. Don't hold back. Ask for things and give in return. Be sensitive if we get tired. Offer to take care of us. Encourage us, tell us how good we are. Talk about something you'd like to do more, or something you don't like as much. Make sure you let us know we rock your world and we will. And don't fall asleep afterward.

We know you will, but at least try not to.
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