Disclaimer:
No two people are alike and therefore each one of us has different wants and needs from our partners.
Erica: In light of showing what men want, I'm just going to get to it. Men are goal-oriented. The goal is to get off, both partners. I gracelessly polled a couple of male friends with an overwhelming response that the best extra to sex is female initiation. It sounded like a lot of guys worry if their partner really wants it much as they do, so when a girl starts things up, it's perfectly clear that she wants to do the dirty. A man wants his woman to be just as into herself as he is into her. It's not just confidence, it's like being totally self-aware and in turn, truly sexy. Men understand that sex can be awkward for a period of time. But just like women, they want it to get better and they're willing to do what they need to in order to make it happen. Men have short sex attention spans so things have to change up pretty often. Guys like variety in sex. Not variety in positions, per se, but to almost feel like their with different women all the time. I'm not saying go out and buy some ridiculous outfits and wigs, but if that's what it takes to liven things up, then maybe it's worth it. Guys are so easy to please. They don't need the bells and whistles that us ladies need. They just need a great time with a great gal. And another thing men want - a sandwich afterward.
Jill: The above picture reminds me of George trying implement pastrami on rye in bed on Seinfeld. From my experience, men live for excitement. They want that little booty shake and strip tease. They want to try it in different spots around the house or in public. Guys live for the new and exciting. Not to say a pattern isn't beneficial and efficient, but they tend to get bored with routine. They also like a full experience. Quickies are fun and to the point, but nothing beats a 45 minute love-session with his lady. They like to be pleased, but at the same time like to feel as if they are providing ladies with a one-of-a-kind sexual experience. Let them take the wheel a little but women, but don't be afraid to take the lead for a while. You'll have him going ga-ga if you're ferocious and don't take the back seat all the time. Men love confidence. They love noises. They love when you toss your hair, arch your back. They love any natural reaction you give them to their pleasing you. So ladies, let loose and let the lovin' consume you.
Erica: In light of showing what men want, I'm just going to get to it. Men are goal-oriented. The goal is to get off, both partners. I gracelessly polled a couple of male friends with an overwhelming response that the best extra to sex is female initiation. It sounded like a lot of guys worry if their partner really wants it much as they do, so when a girl starts things up, it's perfectly clear that she wants to do the dirty. A man wants his woman to be just as into herself as he is into her. It's not just confidence, it's like being totally self-aware and in turn, truly sexy. Men understand that sex can be awkward for a period of time. But just like women, they want it to get better and they're willing to do what they need to in order to make it happen. Men have short sex attention spans so things have to change up pretty often. Guys like variety in sex. Not variety in positions, per se, but to almost feel like their with different women all the time. I'm not saying go out and buy some ridiculous outfits and wigs, but if that's what it takes to liven things up, then maybe it's worth it. Guys are so easy to please. They don't need the bells and whistles that us ladies need. They just need a great time with a great gal. And another thing men want - a sandwich afterward.
Jill: The above picture reminds me of George trying implement pastrami on rye in bed on Seinfeld. From my experience, men live for excitement. They want that little booty shake and strip tease. They want to try it in different spots around the house or in public. Guys live for the new and exciting. Not to say a pattern isn't beneficial and efficient, but they tend to get bored with routine. They also like a full experience. Quickies are fun and to the point, but nothing beats a 45 minute love-session with his lady. They like to be pleased, but at the same time like to feel as if they are providing ladies with a one-of-a-kind sexual experience. Let them take the wheel a little but women, but don't be afraid to take the lead for a while. You'll have him going ga-ga if you're ferocious and don't take the back seat all the time. Men love confidence. They love noises. They love when you toss your hair, arch your back. They love any natural reaction you give them to their pleasing you. So ladies, let loose and let the lovin' consume you.
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